Continuing where I left off last time, here is part two of my reaction to Kyle Idleman’s book. Idleman, Kyle (2011-06-07). Not a Fan: Becoming a Completely Committed Follower of Jesus Zondervan. Kindle Edition.
Kyle is the pastor of Southeast Christian Church in Louisville, Kentucky.
Quotes from Not a Fan continued:
“That’s a lot different than the invitation to which many of us responded. At the end of the sermon the preacher said something like, “I want everybody to bow their heads and close their eyes. If you want to become a Christian then just raise your hand … I see that hand … I see that hand …” But Jesus makes it clear that you need to count the cost. (p. 66)
My Comments in blue:
(False, Jesus does want you to count the cost of discipleship, but that cost-counting comes after conversion and has no bearing on your actual salvation. It has a bearing on things like the speed and quality of your Christian growth in sanctification or rewards in heaven, etc.)
“That’s a picture of what happens to a lot of fans. If you asked them, “Are you a fan or a follower?” they would confidently respond “follower.” It’s not a question of their effort or desire. They are following hard. Here is the problem; it’s not Jesus they are following. Without realizing it, they are aiming at the wrong target. Instead of following Jesus they are following religious rules and rituals. They have confused the targets. (p. 69)
(Sadly, this is also what Lordship salvation can do. It can get people to miss the key point of faith and skip on to “attempts to follow,” good works, and rule-keeping. Sometimes people even attempt to prove they are one of the “elect”.)
“Maybe when you were born your parents handed you a mask, and you grew up acting like Christians act, talking how Christians talked, listening to the music Christians listened to; but you never fell in love with Jesus. Your faith has always been more about honoring your heritage than surrendering your heart.” (p. 71)
(The thing here is that yes, many were handed a mask or a mold to conform to, but what they missed out on was the person to believe in – that being Christ. They never came to a point of faith. Everything was performance-based and appearance-driven.)
“As children we may play pretend— but the problem Jesus had with these religious leaders is that they were professional pretenders.” (p. 75)
(The pretenders were the Pharisees and Sadducees. The problem is that popular Reformed theologians or “culturally relevant” lordship Salvationists can easily be just like the Pharisees in that they make everything about rule-keeping and commitments. This is especially true when they skip over the part of believing in Christ alone for salvation to run straight to a faith plus model.)
Speaking of Pharisees:
“They made it hard for people to come to God. They taught that God’s favor and salvation was something that had to be earned, not just by keeping God’s law, but also by keeping a bunch of other laws they added to it.” (p. 76)
(So do Lordship Salvationists. Let’s recount what other things LS advocates like Idleman add to the single requirement of faith: counting the cost, commitment, dying to self, repenting of sins, forsaking all, and on and on. Really? Who is more like the Pharisees?)
“Fans are all about the “do,” but followers celebrate the “done.” (p. 80)
(False, Pharisees are all about the do. Praise God, free grace believers understand that they are saved from the very moment they believe the gospel, trusting Christ alone to save them. They are the ones who can celebrate the “done”. A Calvinist has to toil through “perseverance of the saints” to hopefully prove that he will be saved in the end. Any failure could mean that he was not one of the supposed “elect”. There is not much to celebrate there.)
“If she was going to get an “A” she was going to earn it. And a fan says, “I’m not taking any handouts— I can do this on my own.” They spend their lives carrying around the heavy burden of religion and making sure others carry that weight as well. (p. 81)
(Actually, most Calvinists and Lordship Salvationists carry around the heavy burden of religion, making sure others carry that weight as well.)
“To those who are weighed down with the fear and guilt of religion. To all the fans who are worn out on religion, Jesus invites you to follow him:” (p. 81)
(The invitation to the lost is to believe the gospel, not an offer of discipleship.)
“But the truth is you cannot be a follower unless you are filled with the Holy Spirit.” (p. 88)
(So let me get this straight. One must commit to becoming a follower to be saved, but must first be filled with the Spirit? This sounds like regeneration before faith to me. It is circular logic.)
“Fans who try to follow Jesus without this power will start to show signs. Sooner or later they will reach a point where they are frustrated by failures.” (p. 88)
(Now I ask, who is more frustrated than a Lordship Salvationist who lives with failures? Or an Arminian who thinks they can lose their salvation and then fails to do so. If you miss the part about faith in Christ alone and operate on the faulty foundation of faith plus, then you will surely find failure and frustration trying to live a Christian life without the Spirit. Now it should be noted that a believer has both a new nature and the old nature, and can become miserable if he walks in the old nature, but it is a different kind of misery.)
“People surrendered their lives to Christ and accepted his free gift.” (p. 93)
(Salvation is not a matter of life surrender.)
On Bill Bright’s spiritual breathing:
“The basic idea is that you live with a moment by moment awareness of the Spirit until walking in the Spirit becomes as natural —as habitual— as breathing. It’s just part of who you are. Here’s how it works: the moment you become aware of sin in your life you exhale. (p. 95)
(Walking in the Spirit can become more and more natural for the believer as we grow in sanctification. We don’t need this “Spiritual breathing” nonsense, though. We need to put off the old man and put on the new, be filled with the Spirit, walk in the Spirit, feed upon God’s Word, learn more about God and His Word, and see His truth in our lives as we apply the Word. We don’t need to make up new terms like “Spiritual breathing”.)
“And then you inhale. When you inhale you breathe in and pray to be filled with the Spirit and you surrender control over to him.” (p. 96)
(That all sounds quaint, but it is pointless if you are not saved. I will note that walking in the Spirit is often even easier than Bill Bright makes it sound. A more mature believer can actually be tempted, reject it, and move on in the Spirit’s control all in one instant. It can be as quick as a blink of an eye if you are growing in Christ and walking in the Spirit. It might not always be that way, but the point is that it can. There doesn’t have to be some specially learned “spiritual breathing” technique.)
Traveling analogy:
“It never occurred to me that I was going the wrong way. The road I was on felt right to me. I’m sure there were signs and markers along the way indicating that I was on I– 75, but they never got my attention. It never occurred to me that I might be going the wrong way. I had the radio turned up, and I was singing along to the music, completely oblivious. I never allowed for the possibility that I was on the wrong road.” (p. 102)
(That is sadly ironic. I wonder if Lordship Salvationists ever consider that they just may be on the faith plus path that leads to separation from God?”
“This teaching of Jesus is the conclusion of his sermon known as “The Sermon on the Mount.” It’s a sermon that has been all about raising the bar of the commitment for those who would follow him. It’s a narrow road, but it’s a road that leads to life.” (p. 103)
(There are many good principles in the Sermon on the Mount, but you’d better consult all of scripture for the basis and method of salvation. This is also a key point about the narrow road that so many get wrong. Some presume that the narrow road refers to a few who are truly committed, but it actually refers to the minority of people who place their trust in Christ alone for salvation. See, the majority will either put their faith in the wrong person/thing, or add to faith in Christ with works.)
“We have convinced ourselves that our beliefs are sincere even if they have no impact on how we live.” (p. 104)
(Here is again a misunderstanding of salvation. The key is not sincerity but the object of our faith. Either you trust Christ for eternal salvation, or you don’t. Trusting Christ plus yourself is not salvation.)
“We are saved by God’s grace when we believe in Jesus and put our faith in him, but biblical belief is more than something we confess with our mouths; it’s something we confess with our lives.” (p. 104)
(We are saved by God’s grace when we trust Christ as Savior from our sin based on the gospel message. We don’t need to say a prayer, confess him to people publicly, or live out our lives as a living confession to be saved. Living a Spirit-filled life does however glorify God and is a good testimony, but has no bearing on salvation.)
“The book of James in the Bible addresses this. James wants his readers to understand biblical belief: What good is it, my brothers, if a man claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save him? Suppose a brother or sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to him, “Go, I wish you well; keep warm and well fed,” but does nothing about his physical needs, what good is it? (James 2: 14– 16).” (p. 105)
(This is a classic Calvinist misunderstanding of James. Faith in Christ alone for salvation always saves eternally. James is urging believers to use their faith for good works.)
“We don’t often think of it this way, but here’s an important truth that needs some attention in circles of faith: A belief, no matter how sincere, if not reflected in reality isn’t a belief; it’s a delusion.” (p. 106).
(This is one of Kyle Idleman’s more awful quotes in this whole book. The reality is for him that a belief in Christ alone for salvation saves a person because the Bible says so! Or does He think that the Bible is a delusion as well? You absolutely do not have to prove your salvation to others by your works in order for your salvation to have been actual! Being saved means that you are saved from the eternal penalty of sin, that you have been born again with a new man, that you can now walk in the Spirit, that you have an inheritance in heaven, that you have an eternal heavenly Father, but none of that means that you will necessarily do anything with what you have been provided. It is a sad and shameful thing for Christians to not do much with their Christian lives, given all that is theirs in Christ. The reality is that some don’t do much, and ultimately there will be some that stand before God at the Bema Seat judgement for believers and have virtually nothing to show for themselves, but are yet saved. Plus, why have rewards for faithfulness if the Spirit supposedly just makes everyone do everything good?)
“In Revelation 3 Jesus says to the Christians in Laodicea, ‘You are neither hot or cold but because you are lukewarm— I’m about to spit you out of my mouth.’ Jesus doesn’t say, ‘Everything in moderation’; he says you can’t be my follower if you don’t give up everything. His invitation is an all or nothing invitation.” (p. 112)
(This is a misunderstanding of Rev 3 and is common amongst LS proponents. Ask me about this later if you are not sure why.)
“It’s not unusual to go to a sporting event of some kind and see someone holding up a sign that says “JOHN 3: 16.”* But I’ve never seen someone hold up a sign that says “LUKE 9: 23.” Quick, say that one without looking. That may be a little tougher. But Luke 9: 23 also records the words of Jesus. In fact, unlike John 3: 16, these words of Jesus in Luke 9: 23 are recorded in three of the four Gospels. Here they are: If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.” (pp. 115-116)
(It could also be that the person holding up the sign understands the difference between salvation and discipleship.)
“Those two things must necessarily go together. There is no believing without following. There is no John 3: 16 without Luke 9: 23.” (p. 116)
(This is false for obvious reasons. Idleman provides no proof that this is so.)
“Even after we decide to follow Jesus, we continue to need his grace for the journey. There are plenty of days where I find myself living as a fan, but each morning I receive the same grace-filled invitation that Jesus spoke to Matthew: “Follow me.” (p. 125)
(That is sad, so now one has to make this commitment daily? Wait, I thought you were saying that our lives would prove that we are saved? How can they if you say you wake up every day as a “fan”? Wouldn’t that cast doubt on your salvation? So then are you getting saved again each morning? Is that what you are saying it means to persevere? What if you stop committing to follow each day? Are you not really saved that day? See why it all doesn’t make any sense Biblically?)
“He’s afraid that if he makes that kind of commitment it will require too much of him or somehow he’ll miss out on something better. So he makes the suggestion, “Hey, why don’t we move in together?” Translated: “How about I get all the benefits of marriage without having to make any of the commitments and sacrifices?” That’s the approach fans take. Fans say to Jesus, “Hey, why don’t we move in together?” (p. 134)
(Seriously? He is comparing this to the salvation of someone who believes but has little fruit? I feel that God’s grace is being belittled here. It is rather offensive. Yes, a person can be saved regardless of what he later does with that reality, but that is not a direct comparison to what Idleman suggests. This seems like a man’s tactic to sound convincing, but it fails the Biblical test of accuracy. We must be careful not to determine our theology from human examples.)
Speaking of the Rich young ruler:
“He’s faced with the choice of following Jesus or keeping his stuff, but he couldn’t do both”(p. 144)
(Wrong. He needed to trust Christ alone for his salvation, not in himself or his works. He had the opportunity to be saved the very same way as everyone else – by faith.)
“You won’t be able to take the path of following Jesus without walking away from a different path.”(pp. 144-145).
(True but you have to first be a believer. Salvation is not a change of life paths.)
“There are no exception clauses. You don’t get to say, “I follow Jesus— but when it comes to this area of my life, I do things my way.” If you call yourself a Christian, by definition you are committing to following Christ with every area of your life. It doesn’t mean you will follow perfectly, but you can’t say, “I’m a Christian” and then refuse to follow Christ when it comes to certain people or places or practices.”(p. 147)
(This quote illustrates the deception that is works salvation. Committing to follow Christ in discipleship is a work, not unmeritorious faith. Remember, there is no merit that we can bring to the table that obligates God to give us salvation. He is not impressed when unbelievers try to make a commitment to follow Him. He first wants to save them by grace through faith.)
“I sat down and explained that you don’t have to have your life together to become a Christian or be a part of the church, but you must be willing to repent of your sins.”(p. 147).
(False, you don’t have to repent of your sins to be saved. An unbeliever can’t do that anyway. All they can do is respond to the gospel message by faith in Christ alone. That is repentance.)
“One of Christ’s followers who is a hero to me is Bill Bright. He was the founder of Campus Crusade for Christ. He wrote the tract called The Four Spiritual Laws that presents the gospel.”(p. 150)
(Sadly, it appears that you should have chosen a better teacher.)
“Choosing to become a bondslave was an act of complete self-denial. A bondslave gave up all their rights to the Master. He is agreeing to give up all his possessions to the master. A slave couldn’t pick and choose what was part of the deal. He couldn’t say, “I’m going to be a slave but I want to keep the car, and I need every other weekend off. I need to have a room with a view.” It wasn’t a negotiation. A bondslave would say, “Everything I have, everything I am, I sign over to you.” That’s what Jesus was wanting from the rich young ruler.”(p. 152)
(Now does everyone see the problem that comes by confusing salvation with discipleship? It adds works to the gospel.)
When Jesus invites us to follow there’s not a lot of paper work involved, but he’s looking for some kind of a quitclaim deed. When you decide to follow him you are signing over your house, your car, your bank accounts, your career, your marriage, your children, your future, and anything else that you once laid claim to. You have no more rights and nothing can be withheld. You deny yourself and sign a quitclaim deed on your life.(p. 154)
(Salvation is not like a quitclaim deed. Nor is it a bilateral contract for that matter.)
“As Bonhoeffer put it, “When Christ calls a man, he bids him come and die.”(p. 159)
(I am not surprised to see Bonhoeffer mentioned. Actually, the gospel call is to look to Jesus now and live! It is discipleship that includes self-denial. Big difference.)
“Jesus invites followers to die to themselves. We die to our own desires, our pursuits, and our plans. When we become followers of Jesus, that is the end of us.” (p. 161)
(Really, is that why you said earlier that you were a fan every morning and had to re-commit each day? )
“In Mere Christianity C. S. Lewis puts it this way: Christ says, “Give me all. I don’t want so much of your time and so much of your money and so much of your work: I want you. I have not come to torment your natural self, but to kill it. No half-measures are any good. I don’t want to cut off a branch here and a branch there. I want to have the whole tree down. I don’t want to drill the tooth, or crown it, or stop it, but to have it out.”(p. 166)
(The old man is not annihilated upon salvation. Progressive sanctification should not be confused with the decision to trust Christ for salvation.)
“Every day we make a decision that we will die to ourselves and live for Christ. Dying to ourselves is not a one-time decision. It’s a daily decision. That’s the most challenging part of dying.”(p. 168)
(There he goes contradicting himself again. Didn’t he just say this: “We die to our own desires, our pursuits, and our plans. When we become followers of Jesus, that is the end of us.” Also, if the decision to die to self in committing to be a disciple is a daily thing and becoming a disciple is the same as becoming a believer, then we need to be getting saved over and over again as we go each day through our lives? False! See how this amounts to no salvation at all. It is just a continual process of work commitments.)
“That’s the hardest part of carrying your cross … it’s so daily. Each morning by the grace of Jesus, I am invited to take up a cross and die. That’s the only way I will follow him that day. Every morning we crawl back on the altar and die to ourselves.”(p. 170)
(See the previous comment. I rest my case.)
“It’s much easier to speak about following Jesus when you are making a general statement without any specific commitments. But the most obvious and basic definition of following Jesus will mean making some significant life changes. Following Jesus literally means that you go where Jesus goes.”(p. 176)
(So, Jesus would go to a church that teaches works salvation and teach people works to be saved? Isn’t Christ in heaven seated on the right hand of the Father? Isn’t He also omnipresent because God is Three in One (Father, Son, Holy Spirit)?
“Or what about this, what if God points to a place like Burma or Thailand and says, “What about there?” Anne Judson was the wife of America’s first foreign missionary, Adoniram Judson. Adoniram was 24 when he decided to leave America and sail to Burma.”(p. 178)
(I have heard this tactic of coercion used before by preachers to get people to commit to missions.)
“But the most obvious and basic definition of following Jesus will mean making some significant life changes.”(p. 176)
(So, in essence, you are saying that salvation means you have either made life changes to be saved or at least commit each day continually to making life changes? Wow. That is the opposite of the clear Biblical gospel.)
“I’m not sure how you can call yourself a follower of Jesus if you refuse to go where Jesus went.” (p. 185)
(So, I have to go to Samaria, Jerusalem, Bethlethem? Or does he mean in principle? Part of the purpose of following a master was to learn from them. We can all, as believers, learn from Christ through the Word.)
“Many fans say to Jesus, “I will follow. Anything and everything I have, I give to you.” But Jesus points to what you’re hiding behind your back and says, “What about that?” For Nicodemus it was a religious reputation. For the Rich Young Ruler it was his stuff. For this man it seems to be his family relationships that held him back. They are willing to follow Jesus, but the relationship isn’t exclusive.”(p. 202)
(False, they both had to be born again by grace through faith.)
“He will settle for nothing less than your undivided attention and complete commitment. (p. 204)
(Well, there goes your re-commit daily idea.)
“Trading everything we have for all that he offers is the best deal we could ever make.”(p. 205)
(Salvation is not a barter deal.)
“They have become too important and they keep us from following Christ with our whole hearts. Augustine referred to these things as “disordered loves.” They may very well be legitimate, but they are out of order in our lives.”(p. 206)
(Hmm, Augustine, CS Lewis, Bill Bright, Bonhoeffer… does anyone see the picture here?)
“Until you really have surrendered anything and everything over to Jesus and truly put him above all else in your life, you will not know the joy and satisfaction that finally comes when you go all-in.(p. 207)
(Really, well, how do you know when you have reached that milestone? This illustrates why it is foolish to base our salvation on fruit inspection. How can one be sure if there is enough?)
In conclusion, let’s remember some key things:
Salvation is not equal to discipleship.
Salvation is by grace through faith.
We can add nothing to faith in Christ alone.
If we do add anything to faith it amounts to no faith at all.
Stay away from those who preach and teach a false gospel.
Please also consider the following verses and their surrounding passages starting with Titus 3:5-7.
(Eph 2:8-10, John 3:16, I Cor 15:1-4, Gal 1:3-4, Rom 3:22-28, Rom 5:1-2, Rom 5:18, Eph 1:10-15, Phil 3:9, Rom 4:3-5, Col 1:4-5, Eph 1:7, Eph 2:13, Col 1:14, Rom 6:4, 11-13, 2 Cor 5:14, John 14:21, Rom 12:1-2, Tit 2:11-12, I Pet 2:1-3, I Cor 3:15)
Jim F
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